High school studies presented no great
challenges to me. I joined the gym-rats who were responsible for keeping hangar
2 clean. In it was the basketball court where all the home games were played. I
spent a lot of time playing basketball with the other gym-rats. We controlled
the use of the hangar and became close-knit. For a real short guy I became a
pretty good player given to fast breaks the length of the court. We dominated
use of the court and were careful in who we allowed to become gym-rats.
A man who sought to influence us was the
Advisor to the boys' dormitory. Wendall E. Abel had the realization that
because of our cultural backgrounds we would have difficulty in adjusting to the
white man's world. Every week he gave all the boys a lecture in how to become a
better man. He emphasized an open mind, fair play, and high self esteem among
other things. I always looked forward to his talks to learn how a boy achieved
manhood 3 in the white man's world. Would I have to become a major league baseball
player? A Senator? A learned man with reputation? No, these were things
achieved after manhood. Was there a prescribed course of actions to reach
manhood? What were they and did they have a religious ceremony or public
acknowledgement to mark a boy's manhood? The answer to the manhood question
seemed vague to me. The public recognition of when a boy became a man seemed like
an issue which was never given to serious consideration. Abel's Orientation
classes have influenced my sense of values and indeed made me a better man. His
fairness to the boys was a trait I always emulated. His demeanor was rigidly
correct and dignified. l could actually see him arguing questions of state in
the United States Senate. I would trust his decisions.
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